Sons of Bitches - bad bitches

Dear Mothers of Daughters,

Guess what? We mothers of sons love our sons too. We think they are precious, valuable, and second to none. We think they are great, we think they are competent, we think they hung the effin moon! IF we raised them correctly.

We taught them to respect women, how to . . .address women, and what to look for in a woman. We showed them by example - if we did it correctly, how a woman should conduct herself. We chastised them roughly and thoroughly when they deserved it.  We loved, hugged, kissed and nurtured them equally as hard. We taught them when to be firm, and when to soften their grip - when we did our job correctly.

We were strict on them, we pushed them, we guided them. We loved them too.

Stop fooling your daughters into thinking it's Prince Charming or the boogie man. Stop allowing your daughters to think if her relationship fails it's "his" . . ."because he didn't appreciate the woman you are". Answer me this - how prepared did YOU make your daughter to handle a man - her man? What steps did you take to instill virtue in your daughter to be a virtuous woman? Did you teach her to think - independently? Did you teach her to believe in Prince Charming, but when he comes along she needs to have game to keep Prince Charming? Did you teach her to keep her home neat, presentable, and clean? Did you teach her how to do laundry? How to prepare a satifying meal? Did you teach her the answer is NOT between her thighs, because guess what - we all came into this world with the equipment to screw one way or another. Or did you teach her that she will be screwed if she doesn't know how to carry herself correctly?

Because you know, we mothers of sons certainly told our sons all of this. We taught them to have your own - thoughts, processes, finances, plan, place, and successes mapped out. Therefore, the first little miss that comes around shaking her ass or her box a Betty Crocker won't hym him [them] up. We thaught them real sh** from bullsh**. We taught them you can't make a ho a housewife - period! We taught them - if she creeps with you, she'll creep on you. We put game in our sons. So what is your reason for not instilling game in your daughter? I am not talking about playing games - we taught our sons that gets people hurt. But having game! - gets you noticed and keeps you on point.


So mothers of daughters - please! - stop telling we mothers of sons "you don't understand because you don't have a daughter". Trip on this, I AM a daughter. I am a mother, a sister, an aunt, a GeeGee and foremost a woman. I am a woman of God. A God who so loved the world He gave His only begotten SON.

Dear Mothers of Daughters, guess what - we mothers of sons love our sons immensely too. We think they are precious, valuable, and second to none. We think they are great, we think they are competent, we think they hung the effin moon! When, we raised them correctly. Stop blaming me, us, and our sons because you didn't do your job.