Genesis:

     God made Adam first . . .Like it, love it, accept it or hate it. It is still a fact. But, trip on this - God saw Adam - now watch this - Adam was in charge on Earth. He was in Charge. God charged him with the task of naming all the animals,  birds, fowl, insects, plants, vegetation, all that. Adam was in charge - da' man! But despite all that, God saw man and man was lonely - and it was not good.

     God said it was not good for this man He created to be lonely - alone. Solution? He - God - put him to sleep, and from him removed a rib, and made a help mate. A woman - wo - wom- womb - born of a man - woman. Helpmate - assistant. Assist man: not carry,  not burden, not provide for - to compliment your Adam. Now how complimentary are you, us, we?

     So now bug on this too: Adam had a rib removed to help form his helpmate, and survived less one rib - and survived and continued to live. He lived. Woman - Eve - could not have even existed without what? Him, Man, Adam. Deep huh? She [we] came from his rib. Now examine what does a rib - a rib cage - do? It protects our His, Adam, Man - protects the heart. Got your attention now.

     To assist him,  to help him,  is stemmed from protecting his heart. Your duty is to know what it is you are protecting, assisting with - your duty is to know his heart. How are you going to be concerned with helping him if you are helping yourself to someone else' Adam, . .  . .  to helping your girl with her issues,  . .or even your momma, before you run it by him - your Adam? Yes I did! -  yo momma. ". . . for when I was a child, I did as a child did. When I became a man - a woman -  I put away those childish things." . . . habits, attitudes, relationships ". . . and went the way of a man " - an adult.

     Your mother or parental unit should have enough respect to have raised you well enough to put away those things that interfere with your rightful place as an adult - as Eve, as a woman. Your parents should have given you the tools to honor thy mother and thy father. Fore there is no greater honor than witnessing your child, as an adult, to lead, be in charge or of protecting her Adams' heart.

Grow up, take your rightful place, or Adam will not be the only one alone - and that is not good.